Guys Character

Girls, have a close friend guy? Want to know what kind of character? Just look at the way he was carrying a bag. Then, match the following explanation!

1. Backpack
A guy who likes carrying a backpack is a guy who likes adventure and brave. He never gave up and rarely stress when faced with difficult condition.

2.Two Shoulder
A guy who often carry backpack by two shoulder, is a fair guy. He always tried not to hurt other people. He is also the straight person , honest, and not sneaky. His schedule is always neat and good at set time. 

Hmm ... he is a guy who often become role models for many people. That is why, we should be able to be perfect, if you want to keep familiar with guy like this. 

3.One Shoulder
Easy going or casual, that's the salient character of guy who often carry backpack with one shoulder. He's also a guy who spontaneously. He likes to give surprises that can make us surprised and pleased.  

However, sometimes he also too idealistic, making it less able to accept the opinions and views of many people. 

Hmm ... we should not be hard to face friend guy like this. 

4.Carrying
A guy who often bring by carrying a backpack, is simple and gentle guy. However, sometimes he likes to do casually. He is also less likely to be regulated, and the like to forget his promise. 

If we want friends with a guy like this, we must be patient and often to remind himself. 

5.Sling Bag
A guy who likes to wear a sling bag is a guy who has a pretty smooth feeling. Fairly high artistic soul and ... ROMANTIC

6.Cross Right
This guy is more often using his left brain (mind) of the right brain (feeling). No wonder, if he included a guy who likes to think logical, and rational (reasonable) in making decisions. Everything always he calculated carefully. Otherwise, he would not be happy. Even so, he is not easy emosian. Now, if we want to keep familiar by a guy like this, we should not be spontaneous. If it would do something with it, we must have good planning and sensible . 

7.Cross Left
A guy who often carry the bag in this way, tend to use more right brain than left brain. That is why, he was rather emosian. In doing something, he would use feelings rather than thoughts. However, he also had a warm personality and compassionate to others. Hmm ... such fun guy to be friends vent. But, sometimes he moody. Therefore, we must be sensitive to read his mood. If they are happy, then we are talking. 

And I really know, what kind of character person I love. ^^ 
Its for some people, NOT ALL 

Simple Personality Test

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See the picture . Which number you choose?
Do not arbitrarily choose, because each image represents your personality. 

It's the answer:

1. If you choose number 1, you are really a generous and virtuous. You are always working to improve ourselves. You are very ambitious and have high standards. One might think it would be difficult to communicate with you, but for you is not as easy to be yourself. You are a hard worker but a little selfish. You work because you want to improve the world. You have great power to love people to be hurt. Whatever they do to you, you still love them. Very few people who want to appreciate all that you do and treat you properly.

2. If you choose number 2, you are really nice, and honest. You are are very responsible and love to help people. You are believe that the work must be honest and accept all the work related to responsibility. You are have very good personality and is easy to believe you. You figure that cheery, humorous and quick thinkers. You are always have an interesting story to be delivered. 

3. If you choose number 3, you figure that clever and wise. You are great thinker, where a lot of thoughts and ideas is very important. You are always translate a self-made theory. You are are introverted figure. You are traveling with people who like to think and learn. Most of the time you spend thinking about morality. You are just try to do what is right, even though the majority of people do not agree with you. 

4. If you choose number 4, you are really responsive and philosophical. You are are very unique, very few like you. There may be somewhat similar at your side. You are figure based on intuition and a bit unique. You are often misunderstood and hurt because of it. You are need a private room. Your creativity needs to be developed, as well as requiring the respect of others. But you are really able to see the light and dark sides of life. You are are very emotional.

5. If you choose number 5, you are really confident and powerful. You are are very independent. The guiding principle of your life is "I did it with my way". You are depend on yourself and know how to stay strong on yourself and your loved ones. You are really know what you want and are not afraid to pursue your dreams. Only one you want from others, honesty. You are've been very resilient to accept the truth. 

6. If you choose number 6, you are really friendly and sensitive. People relate very well with you. You have many friends and you like to help them. You have warm and bright aura that can make people feel good when you are around you. Every day, you think about what could be done to improve. You want to look attractive, sound, and unique. You want love, more than anyone in the world. You are always ready to love despite unrequited.

7. If you choose number 7, you are a figure cheerleaders and did not want to be disturbed. You are very sensitive and understanding. Your outstanding listener and know how to not be judged. You believe that everyone has their own life journey. You are very open with people and a new atmosphere. You very rarely avoid stress and worry. Under normal circumstances, you are very relaxed. You always make time to spare and tap never lost the chosen path. 

8. If you chose number 8, you are really exciting and energetic. You are figure of fun and knows how to make other people laugh. You are live in a state of harmony with the universe. You are very spontaneous and enthusiastic. You are never refuse to say no to adventure. Often, ending shocking and makes people shocked. But it just shows what you are. You are always justify yourself. You are got a lot of interest and would like if there is show it to you, you will not rest until it is completely steeped in knowledge in it.

9. If you choose number 9, you are really optimistic and lucky. You are believe life is a gift and you try to get as much as possible and use that gift to be used properly. You are are very proud of your success. You are are always ready to people you care about. You are very comfortable for living. 

 

Sweet Memory

Now
My heart was scratched sadness
When the word of love for last
Although tears do not fall
That does not mean I'm willing

At the  step of time,
The distance we are getting become far
Could it all be our memory ?
Or be swept away by the waves?
Or even, to be buried by our time and circumstances ?

Cinta, in this heart
Will remain there for the memories
You are very compassionate to me,
You are very good in every human being,
You're so grumpy on the people around you are not disciplined,
You are very clever,
You know exactly what I want
Anyone who is around you will surely admire you

But I,
Miss you so much
Do not you ever let me  in a vacuum
Because of this memory
Make a special space as your promise to me
As special as your place in my heart

Thx Cinta

MISS LIKE CRAZY

Miss Like Crazy

Have a love, certainly has a sense of longing. Long time no see, waiting for a lover who is yet to come. One second feels like an hour, an hour as one day and one day like a week. A week as one month. One month feels like a year.
Waiting is not something pleasant. Tedious and sometimes torture. But if there is hope to see the people we love are happy, then the torture would not bring regret.

What if 169 days? Approaching 200 days.
Tortured, really. A season without the presence of the beloved. Familiar to jokes, stories, angry, then smiled again, calling stupid and silly at the other.

Magically,
How , when feeling lost something most beautiful in life, and in the last time it suddenly appeared. Feels miracle became real. Such as waiting for a drop of water in the dry season. 

Miss Like Crazy

Read short messages from someone beloved till hundreds times. Even thousands times. As if the letters can change or bring someone who sent it near us.

Even just the letters, can make silent only. Saying stupid things and forget to ask important things. Even forgot to say, "HOW ARE YOU?"

Magically,
Treated like a hole in the heart. The hole that makes feel empty and alone. The hole was as close itself. Like when Harry Potter's final battle with Voldemort. He deeply felt resigned. Then as there is power that helped. And he became the last, alive.

Miss Like Crazy

Can not sleep,
That's it.

 

Love With Quietly

Love with quietly.
Just look at the timeline, guess what was going on. Are your days as bright as your smile. In fact, what if one day do not see your picture, maybe I'll make a mental hospital inmates?

 
Love with quietly
Did not dare say anything to the latter. Feels very difficult. I know, I'm very talkative, but look at your eyes, I can just shut my mouth. As I was a baby 1 year who was forced to say "HAI" to strangers.

Love with quietly
Suppose we meet, maybe I would be happy even if we just opposite the road. Or look at you from a distance. You are standing at the bus stop, and I've been seeing from a chair front of cafe while pretending to read a book and take late. So beautiful.

Love with quietly
Really unique, I imagine, I secretly put yellow flowers on your desk. Secretly, I wrote a short poem on paper purple, then slipped into a briefcase.

Love with quietly
So beautiful. Like a rainbow.
Many colors, but remain in harmony.
See you smile, makes me calm.
Hear you laugh, make me comfortable.
Knowing you happy, makes me feel like being in the garden of yellow flowers.

Then in the evening prayer, I whisper your name.
That God will always protect you.
That God will not let you make mistakes.
Then my night in my dream, I saw you.
Taking my hand, hugged me and would not let me go.

And in the morning, I awoke with a smile.
See the mobile phone screen, the first smile I wanted to see.  

Makes me feel grateful, because God shows the beauty in this way. 

If You Hate Ur Life

This morning, I went around the small town. Go to the villages I saw a very mmm I do not know how to say it. 

Then I thought, how I was not grateful to my life. 

I want a lux house, newer car, feel the balance is not always enough for my life. I sometimes feel jealous of  girl A because she has a world brand handbags, girl B can buy luxury vehicles. Then the girl C who had a partner as handsome as Edward Cullen. Ha ha ha. 

And in my mind, I assume it's still human.

Then, I want to like the girl who wore a gray blouse. Teaching in the classroom, and sang with her students. 

Or like the girl who wore red uniforms, beautyful make up in the bank or on the plane.

How I was not grateful. Then I complain, why do I have to be like this. Could only see jealous of them. 

When I spend time in the big city, I see luxury homes, expensive apartments, and a big mall. I'm so jealous. Shopping with lots of shopping bags are not able to be taken by these two hands. And I still want to do a holiday trip to India, Venice and China, which must be very expensive as well.

And at the peak of saturation, I feel I became very hated myself for not being able as they are more successful than most other girls.

But this morning,

I saw woven bamboo walls of their house almost broken down. Dirt-floored house, and only small.

No mall, plaza or minimarket. There is only a small grocery store with dusty goods. I see girls who are very different. Without powder, eyeshadow, blush and lipstick. They do not read fashion magazines. Wearing clothes that I think does not matching. Yellow tshirt and bright green skirt. But they seemed to glow naturally.

No brightly colored small car in their driveway. There is only a rusty bicycle that took them to the fields and gardens. Washing at river.

But they looked very smiling. Their smile more cheerful. Not confused to find an ATM to view account balances. Because they only have money for this day. Their desire is very simple. Can come together with family, children, husband. See their children grow up. As long as their children can eat on time and go to school, no one else can make them anxious. 

When I heard them talking with their local language, (perhaps they think that I can only understand Bahasa Indonesia). They said, "It was good to be that girl (me). It looks pretty, neat, fragrant, clean, bright and had a wonderful future. We are village women, who live only for the routine. If I was given the chance, I want to be like her. or at least sometime, my daughter as her"

After that, I could only get into the car, reflect their words. How I should be more grateful for what I've got.

LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP

Hi ladies, Nowadays, so many couples undergoing relationship with LDR. Live dating to the road is indeed very difficult. How come? We must believe in the words of a man who is much there. He could have an affair with his friend. That's why a lot of couples that can not be lasting in dating with LDR. LDR so scary, is not it? We just "have to" believe in him that much there. We're going to be afraid, he is tempted by another girl around. Not easy, indeed. And I'm here to agree with the opinion that the LDR is very likely to succeed passed.

This is not nonsense, ladies. All it took effort and hard work. Relationships with someone who are close was hard enough, moreover him that there is so far with us. I never experienced such a relationship, and we can maintain our love. 

Believe in him, not just the only one point. Many other things we have to do.

We must have a plan. Call it the MASTER PLAN. It will be the basic goal of our commitment. We must agree with him, to bring it together. Remind each other of our big goals. Indeed, to realize the dream, we sometimes have to sacrifice something we have. But many of us have to be patient, and wait for the right time.

Ladies, the silly things we often do is think about him all day. We make no concentration at work. Usually, it applies to ladies who obesesif. And I have a tendency to do that, though sometimes I realized that it was not true. We must believe, and avoid thinking he would be "naughty" with another girl around. We need to control our minds. I've been almost like a crazy person, just because he did not answer in a day. Without realizing it, it just makes him fear us. 

Nowadays technology is very advanced, Ladies. You can use whats app, BBM, Line, Skype, Viber and others.

Take the time to always give attention. Remember give ATTENTION, not STALKING.  

Talking to the heart, it is very difficult. Such as torture. But that we must live. By always hopes, all our plans with him will be realized. Assure him that we are the right choice for him. And for him to understand, we also need attention. We need it most, though not his chest to lean on, at least his voice and his face during a video call is enough to make us calm and sure that we and he LOVED EACH OTHER  

Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder

Obsessive-Compulsive disease characterized by obsessions and compulsions. Obsession is an idea, a fantasy or encouragement recurrent, unwanted and disturbing, which seems silly, odd or scary. Compulsion is the urge or compulsion to do something that would alleviate the discomfort associated with obsessions.

Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder, OCD is a condition in which an individual is unable to control of thoughts became an obsession that was not expected and repeated several times certain acts in order to control the mind is to lower the level of anxiety. Obsessive-compulsive disorder is an anxiety disorder in which the individual's life is dominated by repetatif thoughts (obsessions) that is followed by repeated acts (compulsions) to reduce anxiety.

Patients with this disorder may have sought to combat these disturbing thoughts that arise repeatedly but unable to resist the urge to act over and over to make sure everything is fine.

CAUSE

The cause is unknown. Obsessive-compulsive disorder is not related to a characteristic shape one's personality, in individuals who have the personality obsessive-compulsive disorder tend to take pride in accuracy, neatness and attention to the little things, contrary to the obsessive-compulsive disorder, individuals feel pressured by the emergence of behavior can not be controlled. They feel embarrassed when these behaviors questioned by those who see it as doing the job that repeatedly. They are trying desperately to get rid of the habit.

Causes Obsessive Compulsive are:

Genetic - (Descendants). Those who have a family member who has a history of illness is likely at risk of OCD (Obsessive Compulsive Disorder).

Organic  Problems such as neurological problems occur section - a specific part of the brain is also a factor for OCD. Nerve disorders such as those caused by meningitis and encephalitis are also one of the causes of OCD.

Personality - Those who have an obsessive personality disorder is more likely to get OCD. The characteristics of those who have this personality is as outrageous concerned with aspects of hygiene, someone who is too obedient to the rules, talkative, hard work together and not easily succumb.

Past experience - past experience / past too easily mencorakkan way a person handles the problem of whom to show symptoms of OCD.

Obsessive-compulsive disorder closely related to a history of depression or anxiety before. Some symptoms of obsessive-compulsive patients often also shows

Conflict - Those who have this disorder usually face conflicts soul that comes from living matter. For example, the relationship between husband and wife, in the workplace, self-confidence.

Obsessive-compulsive disorder closely related to depression, or a history of previous anxiety. Some symptoms of obsessive-compulsive patients often also showed symptoms similar to depression. Obsessive behavior in depressed mothers tried many times or a desire to kill her baby.

INDIVIDUAL RISK

Individuals at risk for obsessive-compulsive disorder is;

Individuals who experienced problems in the family of a broken home, errors or loss of childhood. (This theory is still considered to be weak but can still be taken into account)

Neurobilogi factors may include damage to the frontal lobe, the basal ganglia and cingulum.

Individuals who have high stress intensity

A history of anxiety disorders

Depression

Individuals who experience sexual harassment

SYMPTOMS

Common obsessions can be anxiety about contamination, doubt, loss and assault. Sufferers feel compelled to perform rituals, namely repetitive actions, purposeful and intentional.

Most of the ritual can be seen directly, such as repeated hand washing or repeatedly checking the door to ensure that the door was locked. Other rituals are mental activities, such as counting or making repeated statements to eliminate the hazard.

Patients can be obsessed by all things and rituals are performed are not always logically associated with discomfort will be reduced if the patient runs the ritual. Patients who are concerned about pollution, discomfort is reduced if he put his hand into his pocket. Therefore, every obsession about contamination arise, he would repeatedly put his hand in his pocket.

Most people realize that his obsession does not reflect the real risks. They realize that the physical and mental perliku too much even tend odd.

Obsessive-compulsive disorder differs from disease psychosis, since the psychosis sufferer loses contact with reality. Patients fear of being humiliated so that they perform rituals in secret. Approximately one third of patients experience depression when his illness was diagnosed.

Symptoms are characterized by repetition (repetatif) thoughts and actions of at least 4 times to the compulsions of the day and lasts for 1 to 2 weeks later. Utam obsession-compulsive symptoms should meet the following criteria:

Behaviors and thoughts that arise are fully realized by individuals or based on impulse in itself. Individuals also realize that his behavior is not rational, but still made to reduce anxiety.

Some behaviors that appear realized by the individual and try to fight habits and thoughts of anxiety is hardest, but to no avail.

The thoughts and actions do not provide relief, a sense of satisfaction or pleasure, but rather is caused by excessive anxiety and reduce stress felt.

Obsessions and compulsions are repetitive nature constantly in several times each day.

CHARACTERISTICS obsessive compulsive

Symptoms of Obsessive Compulsive Disorder is characterized by repetition of thoughts and actions at least 4 times to the compulsions of the day and lasts for 1 to 2 weeks later. The main obsession-compulsive symptoms should meet the following criteria:

Behaviors and thoughts that arise are fully realized by individuals or based on impulse in itself. Individuals also realize that his behavior is not rational, but still made to reduce anxiety.

Some behaviors that appear realized by individuals and tried to fight the habits and thoughts of anxiety is hardest, but to no avail.

The thoughts and actions do not provide relief, a sense of satisfaction or pleasure, but rather is caused by excessive anxiety and reduce stress felt.

Obsessions (thoughts) and compulsions (behaviors) of its repeated continuously in a couple of times each day.

Obsessions and compulsions causing the pressure inside the patient and spend time (more than one hour a day), or significantly interfere with a person's normal functioning, or social activities or relationships with others.

Sufferers feel compelled to perform rituals, namely repetitive actions such as hand washing and checking for a particular purpose.

VARIETY OF BEHAVIOR DISORDERS WHEN OFTEN HAPPENS:

Cleaning or washing hands

Check or check

Collate

Collect or hoard goods

Count or repeat thoughts that always appears (obsessive)

Fear of contamination disease

Fear of harming others

Fear of being wrong

Fear of being impolite

Need accuracy or symmetry

Confused or excessive doubts.

Repeating count many times (to worry about errors on the order of numbers)

Individuals who have obsessive-compulsive disorder sometimes have the mind intrusive without action repetatif clear but most patients showed compulsive behavior as an advanced form of negative thoughts before appearing repeatedly, such as fear infected with the bacteria, people with obsessive-compulsive disorder often wash hand (washer) and other common behaviors as above

Imperfect Angel

When we fall, and really fell, God always sends angels to help us stand up. Wipe away tears. Make us feel better. I remember, some time ago, you said I was an angel who make you feel better when you're bad.
And at that moment I also think you are the guardian angels. Every time, God always sends angels in our lives. Whether in any form. But we really do not know how to realize who the angel was.

2005-2007.
The worst year ever I get. But it seems God always gives bidders when I'm sick. A man, with all the foolishness, so take care of me like I was his daughter. Surprising how God divides sorrow and happiness. When I got home late at night, he picked me up at the end of the road. No matter at any time. All he knew was that I was so scared the roads are narrow and dark. During a fight with my boyfriend, he was willing to hear my story until I fell asleep. He is another person who thinks I'm his little daughter.
He also supported me when I'm falling. I had been a waiteress a small cafe in my town. Own cafe is not a friendly person. Until I can not stand it, I just cried. He , a man who assumed I was her daughter, asked me back to his house.
However, when I really had a good life, why did he go? He left before I could share  happy to him. He returns to God who has sent him.

Some time ago, someone assumed I was his angel. He said that he could smile, even when the worst. He always felt better because of me. And I also like to feel something similar.
We have a way of its own and very unique. So we forget that we have a limit of time. And when conscious, we're running out of time.

Same with the story in the movies, whether amateur film director, or a famous director. Their story has a hero who becomes a savior.
However, behind the goodness of our heroes, there will be episodes that must be replaced with another hero. That is, as the cycle of leaves. Dry leaves would fall to be replaced a new leaf.

No one is able to perfect. But we have to be better.

My Eid Fitr

There have been many articles about Idhul Fitr. Now, I still can not complate for understand the true meaning. All I know, Idhul Fitr is a time when all Muslims shake hands and forgive any errors which have occurred.
If likened to a computer, we reinstall, discard all existing viruses. Then empty the memory of all the files.

Takbir, floated from all corners. And we celebrate on the same day (again).
Different with time a few years ago.  group A celebrating today, then group B celebrate day after.
And the silly, I choose the earlier group celebrating it. I dont care which one of group.  Yes, I do think simple. I love my religion, but I want a comfortable and did not want to feel pressured.

When I was child, Eid is a very special day. Idhul fitri come, will come also new clothes, new shoes, new bag, and everything is new. Because we would meet with uncles, aunts, brothers, sisters, cousins, nieces, grandparents and everyone. And other silly of me, is, I can get a lot of money when Idhul fitri. I compete with cousin brother and sister, who's got the most money. Because according to our culture, if we r not married and still in school, we are get to money from older family.
But now, I'm try to understand, that Idhul fitri not just like that. I try to understand that, Idhul fitri is proof that Allah is very forgiving. Allah forgive all the sins and fault from human.
We human beings should also be able to forgive each other. Because we are human beings.  no matter of Indonesian, Indian, American, Chinesse, Japanesse, Korean, German, African, Italian, or wherever. We are same. We are human beings. Different is good and bad.
Shake hands, throw pride, envy, resentment and anger. Back to the pure heart, like a baby. Expect things to be better in the future.

To the most I love, forgive your daughter, who can not fully make you happy. To the most I remember when I woke up and there was always my dream, thank you, you're always helping me become better, i hope u happy always at there. To my friends, thank you for coloring myday mytime n mylife.
Hopefully we become a better person. Hopefully we get a happier life. Hopefuly we not make the same mistake.
♡♡♡I love you ♡♡♡

Before Last May

Dering telefonku membuatku tersenyum di pagi hari

Ringing of my phone, make me smile in the morning

Kau bercerita semalam kita bertemu dalam mimpi

You told me  we met in a dream last night

Entah mengapa aku merasakan hadirmu di sini

Somehow I feel you are present here

Tawa candamu menghibur saatku sendiri

Your jokes n your laugh, entertaining as I felt alone

Aku di sini dan kau di sana

I'm here and you're there

Hanya berjumpa via suara

Only met via voice

Namun ku slalu menunggu saat kita akan berjumpa

But I was always waiting when we will meet

Meski kau kini jauh di sana

Although you are now far away

Kita memandang langit yang sama

We look at the same sky

Jauh di mata namun dekat di hati

Out of sight, but close at heart

Dering telefonku membuatku tersenyum di pagi hari

Ringing of my phone, make me smile in the morning

Tawa candamu menghibur saatku sendiri

Your jokes n your laugh, entertaining as I felt alone

Aku di sini dan kau di sana

I'm here and you're there

Hanya berjumpa via suara

Only met via voice

Namun ku slalu menunggu saat kita akan berjumpa

But I was always waiting when we will meet

Meski kau kini jauh di sana

Although you are now far away

Kita memandang langit yang sama

We look at the same sky

Jauh di mata namun dekat di hati

Out of sight, but close at heart

Aku di sini dan kau di sana

I'm here and you're there

Hanya berjumpa via suara

Only met via voice

Namun ku slalu menunggu saat kita akan berjumpa

But I was always waiting when we will meet

Meski kau kini jauh di sana

Although you are now far away

Kita memandang langit yang sama

We look at the same sky

Jauh di mata namun dekat di hati

Out of sight, but close at heart

Jarak dan waktu takkan berarti

Distance and time will not mean

Karena kau akan selalu di hati

Because you will always be in the hearts

Bagai detak jantung yang kubawa kemanapun kupergi

Like a heartbeat that I carried everywhere i go

Meski kau kini jauh di sana

Although you are now far away

Kita memandang langit yang sama

We look at the same sky

Jauh di mata namun dekat di hati

Out of sight but close at heart

dekat di hati

close at heart

dekat di hati

close at heart